Having lost my own son to suicide, I still think it is so easy to misunderstand the “why” and to want to have some answer, to pin the blame on something. As Leah suggests below, perhaps we are not asking the right questions. Maybe we should be asking, “How can we ensure that the people in our lives feel truly welcomed in this world?” and “How can we help each other since, amid the range of human emotion, probably the majority of us ask at one time or another, “Why NOT suicide?” and “What are the best ways we can help people to stay . . . stay even though it is so very dark and we can feel so overwhelmed and confused that we see no light and don’t know if the tunnel ends.” As Monica Cassani has reminded us in her blog, Beyond Meds (see referenced below) life is not so simple and people so self-sufficient that we can simply have religious or moral discussions about suicide. Instead, we have to love, to pray for, to hang tough with friends who are hurting so much, and keep lighting the candle and placing it in front of them.
Friends and advocates:
The future of not only mental health care, but of how society regards persons with mental illness, is threatened if H3717 is passed at the national level! We are urged to advocate hard now before the legislature convenes after its recess!
Please help us advocate to our state legislators about the concerns re: the Murphy Bill!
Well-known activist Martha Brock has remained focused on this issue in order to inform advocates in our state. She is participating in various national level forums and shares information with us so we can be advocating together (thanks, Martha!)
Here are some fresh writings from Martha and one of the country’s leading rights advocates for people with mental health challenges. Martha also includes contact information so folks can reach out to their legislators on this issue.
Please note that I do not necessarily endorse the referencing of a national advocacy organization in the Risser article, but he raises the issue that there are advocates who come from very different places on the actions this bill promotes. These differences arise from attitudes toward or against self-determination and the right to personal agency of people with mental health concerns.
If you support recovery, if you support rights, PLEASE HELP US ADVOCATE!